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Not that into you.

October 08, 2004, 12:41 PM

So I want this book.

I don't care if I'm married. It's still interesting.

He's Not That Into You is the title.


"It�s a classic single-woman scenario: you really like this guy, but he�s giving mixed messages. You make excuses, decide he�s confused, afraid of commitment. Behrendt, a former executive story editor for Sex and the City�and a formerly single (now happily married) guy who knows all the excuses�provides a simple answer: he�s just not that into you. Stop kidding yourself, let go and look for someone else who will be. After all, as Behrendt sensibly puts it, "if a (sane) guy really likes you, there ain�t nothing that�s going to get in his way." If you�re not convinced yet, by all means read this smart, funny and surprisingly upbeat little book, full of q�s and a�s covering every excuse woman has ever made to avoid admitting to herself that a man just wasn�t that smitten with her.


For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.

He's afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he's intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.

Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages."

Guy/girl relationships are always interesting to me. And I'd have to say that just from reading that, they're right on.

I was never a Sex and the City watcher, but after watching the first season I was thinking "How many men do these women sleep with?"

Dudes, is that really representative of women that are single?


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